I was so excited to be a part of a fun and eye-opening article this month in Greenville's TALK magazine.
The article is written by my friend, Sangeeta Hardy. Sangeeta has a wonderful way with words. In the article, she effortlessly explains how the modern day southern belle contrasts from the southern women of our past and the quintessential "Scarlett O' Hara". I was thrilled to be a part of her review of the new Southern belle. Sangeeta is such a creative. Everyone should read her blog, "Gridiron for Girls". (A Girl's Giude to Football) Click here to check it out!
Here is her TALK article below!
Redefining the Southern belle
Harrison Blackford, a local Greenville artist and belle, says it best about a Southern belle: "She can just as easily be seen wearing heels, sipping wine at an art opening as she can be seen in boots, drinking beer at a concert."
When we say "Southern belle" one person inevitably comes to mind — Scarlett O'Hara. The "Gone With the Wind"heroine is the quintessential portrait of the traditional Southern belle, sitting on the front porch of her family's Georgia plantation in hoop skirts, playing coy with the Tarleton twins.
This image has come to define Southern belles, but what about the modern Southern belle?
We started with the most obvious sources of information we could think of: the women all around us. We asked these vibrant and intelligent women, all talented and accomplished in their own ways, and it became pretty obvious the Southern belle is alive and well, albeit in many incarnations.
Strength of spirit
There is a stereotype that exists (mostly outside of the South), that Southern women are weak, but when asked to define the modern Southern belle, strength of spirit was a part of almost every answer. Some of our favorite responses were, "she's not a daisy who is just going to fall over," "she puts people in their places without cussing, or breaking a smile" and "she stands up for herself without putting others down."
For the last 40 years moms across the country have been teaching their daughters they have voices and it was time to be heard. Southern moms taught their girls the same lesson but with the advice that they didn't have to be loud or abrasive to be heard. As a result, the new Southern belle knows how to exude strength without having to stomp her feet. This art is what we in the South call "grace" and just as this was very much a part of defining Southern women of the past, it is still the defining characteristic of Southern women today.
While strength of spirit defines the inside of the new Southern belle, fashion is her outward statement to the world. The modern Southern belle has kicked the old rules to the curb and become a beautiful hybrid of elegance and grit. No two of them have the same style, yet all of them are stylish. Sure, we still see some of the old favorites – Jack Rogers sandals and Lily Pulitzer dresses spring to mind. However we are just as like to see a Lily Pulitzer dress worn with a pair of cowboy boots. Harrison Blackford, a local Greenville artist and belle, said it best: "She can just as easily be seen wearing heels, sipping wine at an art opening as she can be seen in boots, drinking beer at a concert."
While the dress code has become more relaxed, there remains the sense that Southern women always put effort into their appearances, even when the result seems effortless. Even when running out for a quick errand, these girls take the time for a quick swipe of lipstick and maybe a pearl or two. Where does this need come from? Some might think it is because "you never know who you are going to run into" and while that is true, for most of us it's more about feeling comfortable in our own skin. We have learned that the feeling of confidence on the inside is made even stronger when we feel comfortable with what we are projecting on the outside. Yes, even when we're just picking up our dry-cleaning.
Manners (aka "The Rules")
Meggie Bradberry, mom, entrepreneur and Southern belle, gave us a single but very telling response: "Manners! Yes ma'am!"
Today's Southern belle may have evolved in terms of attitude and look, but one tradition is still held sacred. Manners. A conversation on the subject will no doubt produce a few tried and true rules, and these days, some thoughts on some others that are no longer written in ink.
Never to be broken
A little wiggle room
Career and family
In the days of Scarlett O'Hara, all women were meant to do was stay in the home and care for their husbands and children. We asked around about how the Southern belle has evolved even from their mothers' generations:
Southern women are traditionally caretakers, and that has not changed. The difference is that these days they are actually taking the time to take care of themselves as well as others. Whether it is taking time to pursue a hobby, volunteering for a cause that is close to the heart, focusing on a career, or even just taking some time to get coffee with a friend, Southern women are looking for ways to put themselves first, even if just for a moment.
Just like many other cultures, the Southern culture focuses around food. The preparation of food is still very much a part of being a Southern woman. However, just as the modern belle is evolving, so is the food she is cooking. Southern women are looking for healthier alternatives to the foods they grew up eating and reading more labels than ever before.
That said, comfort food is still alive and well in the South and for the Southern belle.
"The modern Southern belle eats kale on Monday and a cheeseburger on Saturday," Blackford says.
And we all know that there are some problems that only a healthy serving of homemade mac-n-cheese can solve.
The modern Southern belle is not just one type of girl. She can be short or tall, rich or poor, married or single, or even me, an Indian girl born in Alabama to immigrant parents. While we have broken all of the traditional rules, there are still the essential qualities that tie us to the Southern belles of the past: grace and gentleness with the hint of fire that makes us a force to be reckoned with.
If Scarlett O'Hara were here today I like to think she would say something like this: "The more things change, the more they stay the same."
Posted on July 31st 2014 in Painting News
I am back in the studio after an awe-inspiring trip to Maine, Nantucket, and Martha's Vineyard. Feelin' like painting some boats in the next few months!!!
Posted on July 30th 2014 in Painting News
Deciding on a frame for a painting can be a daunting task at times. For me, the color scheme/look/tone of a painting often determines what direction I want to take with a frame. On the other side of things, sometimes the atmosphere and formality/informality of a room deciphers the frame. I am a BIG believer that there is a perfect frame for each painting, if needed...the perfect partner in crime to make a stunning statement on the wall, a WOW moment. However, I am also a big advocate for leaving pieces unframed. Frequently, the painting is all you need and makes enough of an accent on the wall. Larger abstract paintings can lend themsleves toward a unframed look or a more minimalist syle of frame. Don't overpower something that is already taking up a large portion of your wall. You never want to take away from the painting itself. Good luck in your framing! Here's to beautiful walls!
A few of my favorite frames...
Posted on July 9th 2014 in Painting News
This is a new painting that will be used for a special project with two FAB interior designers...news coming soon!
I had some fun today playing around with fabrics...
30 x 30
Acrylic on canvas
Posted on June 26th 2014 in Painting News
Here is my latest commission...love how it works with all their fabrics. Coral, turquoise blues, lime greens - YUM.
Lovin' life on the Riviera...
Posted on June 25th 2014 in Painting News
Very excited to be featured on the Southern Coterie blog today! Check it out, click here.
CREATIVITY - IN THE STUDIO
Posted on June 11th 2014 in Painting News
I strongly believe that a painting creates the tone and mood of a room. Whether the walls are stark white or lacquered in black, a painting pops off that color and creates the character and color scheme for the space. I prefer a painting to not exactly "match" its surroundings...it makes the painting the focal point and interest of the area.
Below are a couple spaces where I believe the paintings set the atmosphere and make the room.
Posted on June 9th 2014 in Painting News
I love these three guys below! My new painting --- "Trio"
24 x 48, white boxed frame, acrylic on canvas
Email me for pricing and more info! firstname.lastname@example.org
Posted on June 3rd 2014 in Painting News
I am so excited about this painting! Just added to AVAILABLE WORK. Email me for more info and pricing: Harrison@harrisonblackford.com
24 x 24
Acrylic on canvas
Posted on May 13th 2014 in Painting News
New collection of abstract paintings - Summer 2014...stay tuned!
Posted on May 7th 2014 in Painting NewsPages 1234567891011